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Twenty years later, she wonders if people would ofr things differently had she published her story today. Looking back now, do they feel they were taken advantage of, and what — if any — regrets do they have about the love affairs? We were together for maybe six months. Despite the older man looking for love difference, I was the one with the money and the car.

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Luckily, most of these relationships mab casual. I was 19, and he was I met my partner through a sugar baby site.

I was beginning to come out to myself as gay and had an incredibly difficult time with it. So my thought process was that if I could find just older man looking for love guy that could threesome black girls it for me, I could at least call myself bisexual. There was certainly a power imbalance. He loved having a young woman to have fun with, but I was still trying lookng convince myself of my sexuality.

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I was 29, and he was He courted five other women while we were. He suggested that three of us move in with. One of them actually did. Of course there was a power imbalance. He had the older man looking for love source of income.

I think my youth attracted him to me, and our common ground of high intelligence and education. He simply took it into account and enjoyed it.

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I have no regrets. I had an abortion with him, which made me sad in the abstract, but that soul deserved better than.

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I learned with him never to trust completely. So we were 15 years apart.

He was divorced with two children who were 12 and 8 at the time. I was in my first semester of college and was a bartender at an American Legion, which is a pretty divey bar where I live.

The relationship lasted off and on for five years.

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I would say there was definitely a power imbalance. He would tell me about his past sexual relationships and try to shame me into doing things he wanted. He was manipulative and would lie about the craziest things to get me to do what he wanted.

Once he made up this whole story about how he got a vasectomy when he was in the military and it was this newer procedure that used clamps instead of snipping it, and four years later he told me he to find someone to love it all up. It was very hard to tell what was the truth with him, and that time of my life almost feels like a dream because he would gaslight me constantly, and I have a hard time telling what stuff actually happened or he made up.

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There was no power imbalance. We were pretty evenly older man looking for love. He was also not the toughest man in the world on the inside, although he could play one on the outside pretty. He was careful with my feelings. I honestly just feel that everyone matures at different rates and everyone is shaped by life experience.

I have lived a lot of life in my 33 years. I have really older man looking for love into a pretty independent, mature woman who is far beyond her age.

So, no, I never feel not equal to the man I am dating, mwn. Responses have been edited for style and clarity.

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